The third task of parents is to develop society. This task revolves around the virtue of hospitality which is the friendly reception and treatment of guests. As parents, it is your duty to teach your children that everyone in the world is a guest, worthy of friendship and charity.

Hospitality

In the early parenting years, the seeds of hospitality and service to others are sown. Hospitality, which is an act of reception, is introduced at birth. The tenderness of the first human interactions for the infant set the stage for an understanding of hospitality. A child who is received charitably learns to accept others in a similar fashion.

Here are a few ideas for instilling hospitality to your infant and toddler.

• Provide for the basic needs of food, shelter, sleep and clothing.
• Maintain a calm and peaceful home environment. Minimize the use of media.
• Welcome any guests to your home with the same charity that you show your immediate family.

Network with Other Families

Besides demonstrating hospitality in your home, parents of infants and toddlers are encouraged to form a network with other families. The concept of strength in numbers is very true in the early years of family. When several families team up to support each other, they are developing a mini society that will help form the larger culture. Try some of the following:

• Form a group of families with young children. Try to meet a couple of times of month to socialize, pray and discuss family issues.
• Get out the strollers and walk with other young families.
• Go to Mass with other families.
• Swap toys and books and clothing with other families. Not only will this save money, it will give you a reason to get together.
• Start a bible study with young parents.