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Teaching the Way of Love (TWL) is unique among parenting programs available today in that its primary goal is to teach parents how to become the primary educators of their children. The job of a parent is incredibly important. Pope John Paul II said “The future of humanity passes by way of the family” (Familiaris Consortio, # 86). There is nothing more fundamental to our vitality as a society and as a Church than the creation of holy families where children learn to know, love and serve God.

The basic focus of the Teaching the Way of Love Series comes from Familiaris Consortio #36 which states;

…since parents have conferred life on their children, they have a most solemn obligation to educate their offspring. Hence, parents must be acknowledged as the first and foremost educators of their children. The right and duty of parents to give education is essential, on account of the uniqueness of the loving relationship between parents and children…It is irreplaceable and inalienable, and therefore incapable of being entirely delegated to others or usurped by others. …(T)he most basic element (of this education)…is parental love, …with the values of kindness, constancy, goodness, service, disinterestedness and self-sacrifice that are the most precious fruit of love.
Familiaris Consortio 36

Clearly, the role of the parent in a child’s life “is so decisive that scarcely anything can compensate for their failure in it” (FC #36).

To achieve the primary goal of the program, Teaching the Way of Love presents the principles and skills that will shape the parents’ character to do what is right and strength to avoid what is wrong.

The secondary goal of Teaching the Way of Love is to nurture dialogue about the concepts discussed and to assist in the formation of an action plan to implement actual strategies in the home.

The final goal of Teaching the Way of Love is to give parents confidence in their ability to be the best educators for their children by providing a down to earth, practical format for parenting.

Alice Heinzen

Alice Heinzen

Alice Heinzen lives in Menomonie, WI and has been joyfully married for over 39 years to her exceptional husband, Jeff. Together, Jeff and Alice have three grown children who are all married and have gifted them with an increasing number of amazingly perfect grandchildren – seven granddaughters (who bring new meaning to the phrase, “sugar and spice make everything nice”) and two grandsons (who love “snips and snails and puppy dog tails”).

Alice is on the National Board for Natural Family Planning for the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops and is a chief contributor for the Catholic Match Institute. She is a well-known presenter on matters of love and life both within and outside of the Diocese of La Crosse. In October of 2014, the Alice and her husband, Jeff, were invited by Pope Francis to participate in the Extraordinary Synod on the Pastoral Challenges of the Family at the Vatican. Since that time, Alice has traveled in the U.S. and abroad to speak about her experience and the wonderful plan God has for each one of us.

Jeffrey Arrowood

Jeffrey Arrowood

Jeff Arrowood lives in Somerset, WI, with his wife Jodi and his two teenaged children. He enjoys gardening and cooking - two joys that his family unfortunately does not share with him (so much for family projects). Jeff and Jodi are working diligently to help their children embrace adulthood according to God's plan, and are struggling just like everyone else does and need to rely on God's grace.

Jeff holds a master's degree in theological studies and loves to teach the Faith. He taught Catholic high school for 10 years and worked for the Diocese of LaCrosse as the NFP Educator for 13 years. is the founder of From the Abbey, an online spirituality program that helps Catholic adults rediscover the JOY of learning and living their faith so they can grow in intimacy with God. He also runs an online Catholic bookstore.